Ib tsev neeg kev lig kev cai uas muab

Lynne qhia tias "Kuv pog yog ib txwm passionate txog yog ib lub txiv kab ntxwv hloov, peb tham txog nws heev. Kuv twb coj tuaj ntawd txoj kev. Nws yog tsi zoo li txoj kev ntseeg. David twb ua tau passionate heev txog organ donation. Kuv tsis tau hais lus rau qhov twg nws paab tuaj. Peb cov me nyuam tau coj tuaj "uas yog cia li koj ua dab tsi. Koj pab lwm tus neeg thiab thaum peb ua nrog peb lub cev, peb cov hlab ntsha, yog hais tias nws yuav tau them rau pem hauv ntej rau lwm tus neeg lub neej, uas yog cia li koj ua dab tsi."

Kuv pog yog pem hauv ntej-xav. Nws tswj ib qho chaw ua hauj lwm rau tsib qhov muag thiab nws ib txwm xav pub nws ob lub qhov muag

Rau Kelsey, nws yog txoj kev uas muaj ib tug phooj ywg zoo kis tseg kawg ntawm nws freshman xyoo kawm ntawv qib high school. "Thaum cov pam tuag, kuv tus phooj ywg (Jeff)lub tsev neeg sib koom tias nws plig nyob rau lwm tus vim yog donation. Nws tseem muab." Peb kawm txog (organ donation) los ntawm muaj. Nws muab peb ntau ua rau lo lus nug thiab xav txog qhov no.

Blake reflected tias zuj zus, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv Minnesota, uas koj hnov txog hais mav mus deer yeej thoj nam nyob rau lub caij nplooj zeeg.  Nws twb tsis ntev los no twb paub lawm tias kev kawm tau ntau tshaj ntawd. Nws yog tus ntev drives, tus mus taug kev hauv cov tim hav zoov ua ke uas muab lawv lub sijhawm rau sib sib zog nqus hais lus. Ib cim stands tawm. "Yog lub caij nplooj zeeg ua ntej^{kuv hnub yug} 15 xyoos, kuv dad tham rau kuv txog ib txwm khij lub thawv, thiab seb nws tiag txhais tau tias."

Jordyn muab "zuj zus, peb volunteered nrog senior pej xeem nyob rau qhov chaw uas peb pog ua hauj lwm. Peb pog (affectionately hu ua Nonni) thov nej tsam ces peb nug cov neeg peb tau ntsib, "Dab tsi yog ib yam uas peb yuav tsum paub txog lub neej?" Rau Nonni, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau nws yog ib txwm "Kos lub thawv, koj yeej tsis paub leej twg yuav tau." Nws hais tias: "Nws nyob ntawd piv txog nws tsev neeg. Thaum lub sij hawm, yog ib cov neeg ntawm lub chaw senior nyob yuav tsum tau ib lub raum, thiab Nonni yog thawj kauj ruam mus ntaiv thiab tau kuaj, tab sis nws twb tsis tau ib match.

Zoo ib yam nrog cov tsev neeg muaj zog, Nonni tau tsim nws pam tuag pam tuag thiab muaj teev nws xav tau ib lub txiv kab ntxwv, qhov muag thiab cov nqaij mos yog tau. Txawm ntau dua khoom plig rau nws tsev neeg yog tias lawv paub dab tsi nws xav yog vim nws tau muab nws nrog lawv.

 Thawj sib txuas nrog LifeSource

David yog kuaj tau hais tias muaj tus kab mob ntsws muaj dej nyob rau xyoo 2010, tiam sis nws cov tsos mob yeej tsis mus tam sim ntawd. Tej yam progressed thiab nws tus mob tau mob heev ntxiv nyob rau lub caij nplooj zeeg ntawm 2014. Nws yog nws thiaj li kuaj nrog Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis (IPF). 

Hauv 2013, tsev neeg Berwald muaj lawv thawj hu nrog LifeSource siv cov tshiab LifeSource Chaw ua hauj lwm hauv northeast Minneapolis. Berwald Roofing, muaj thiab ua los ntawm tsev neeg Berwald, rau ntau tshaj 40 xyoo, yog instrumental nyob rau hauv lub roofing rau peb tes num uas tau tiav rau lub kaum ib hlis 2014. Raws li Kelsey, "LifeSource Nws yog ib tug ntawm kuv Dad lub xeem tej yaam num uas nws twb tau mus rau ntawm lub-ru tsev thiab saib ib ncig." Thaum lub sij hawm uas siv thawj pib, muaj tug tsis muaj indication ntawm li cas tseem ceeb npaum li cas tsev neeg txoj kev twb kev txuas rau LifeSource yuav. 

Nws yog thaum ib tug kws kho mob lub sij hawm teem tseg ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm Minnesota, tias David thiab Lynne yuav xub kawm tias nws pab neeg kho mob muaj nws yuav yog ib tus neeg sib tw rau lub ntsws transplant. Nws thiaj li, David txoj kev kho mob mus txog tus taw tes uas nws tus kws kho mob muaj lawv yuav tsum tau pib txoj kev mus rau lub transplant tos daim ntawv teev. Tus thawj tshaj plaws uas tau pom zoo yog rau ob peb mus koom ib hoob kawm kom paub ntxiv txog txoj kev transplant. Lynne muab "Yog nyiam heev vim koj taug kev mus rau hauv lub ntiaj teb txawv teb chaws. Ib qhov twg koj xav hais tias koj yog ib qho teeb meem xwb uas muaj ib qho teeb meem, tab sis ces koj mam li nco dheev embraced los ntawm tag nrho cov neeg uas yuav mus txog tej teeb meem zoo sib xws. Cov pab pawg neeg no muab cov lus qhia uas pub peb puag lub tswv yim ntawm transplant. Thaum peb taug kev mus rau hauv chav tsev ntawd lub rooj sab laj ntawd, muaj ib tug poj niam los ntawm LifeSource, hlub heev, embracing heev, thiab nws hais rau cov pab pawg neeg, muab ib pob thiab muab peb cov bracelets ntsuab bracelets. Ib txhia neeg nyob rau hauv cov pab pawg neeg no twb muaj ib transplant, lwm tus tau tos los yog tau soj ntsuam rau daim ntawv tos."

"Thaum koj xav tau ib transplant thiab koj mus txog rau lub limtiam transplant lub limtiam, koj pib twb paub lawm cov kev muaj tiag uas "yog hais tias kuv tsis tau no transplant, kuv yuav tsis tau ntawm no." Nws muaj nws me ntsis ib desperation – koj pib xav – yog hais tias kuv tsis nyob zoo txaus rau transplant? Yog hais tias? Ces Vaj tswv nteg tawm lub hom phiaj no uas yog lig txawv dua li cas koj xav tias nws twb yuav mus. Thiab koj paub tias koj tsis tsim nyog rau transplant. Ces yuav tsum muaj kev txaus siab."

Davi muaj ib daim duab clogged artery hauv nws lub plawv. Nws lub ntsws twb tsis muaj zog txaus undergo plawv bypass phais, thiab nws lub plawv tsis tau sawv ntsug lub ntsws phais. Nrog cov ntaub ntawv tshiab, David twb tsis muaj ib tus neeg sib tw rau transplant. Lub caij uas txais tias muaj nowhere lwm mus yog ib qho nyuaj.

Rau peb, qhov teeb meem uas lees txais yog tus xav tias David yuav tsis tau muab lub vam cia rau lwm tus neeg, xws li peb muaj vam tau txais. Los yog li ntawd, peb xav.

David muaj ib txwm xav ua ib tug pub. Uas yog zoo li no ib tug loj tshaj plaws rau nws. Nws (thiab peb) xav tias nws tsis yog ib tus neeg sib tw kom tau ib tug neeg sib tw kom muaj ib tug hloov vim yog nws lub ntsws. Nws tshuav lub ntiaj teb no xav tias nws twb tsis muaj dab tsi los muab, uas nws tsis tau pub. Ces LifeSource Muab tej no ua pov thawj rau peb. Ntawm no kuv tau tsav tsev los ntawm lub tsev kho mob los ntawm kuv tus kheej hauv lub tsheb, thiab kuv tau txais koj lub xov tooj hu. Kuv cia li tom dhau kev ntseeg."

"Txoj kev zoo nkauj ntawm hu tias peb tau txais nrog qhov kev coj David ua ib daim ntaub so ntswg yog tias lub vam cia tias peb thiaj desperately xav tau ntawm ib kis, peb muab rau lwm tus neeg. Thiab cov kua muag ntawm sorrow tias peb muaj nyob rau lub caij ntawd, nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev, tau zoo siab kua muag paub tias peb ua lwm tus neeg npau suav tuaj tseeb. Vim yog ib kis, peb yuav tsum tau tias dreamer."

"Kuv nco ntsoov qhia cov LifeSource Pab neeg no thaum nws hu ua thiab nug kuv (txog cov ntaub so ntswg donation), "Kuv xav tias yog tab sis cia kuv kos nrog kuv cov me nyuam; Peb yog dheev ib "tsev neeg tshiab" hnub no thiab nws yuav tsum tau ib tsev neeg txiav txim." Thaum kuv tuaj nyob rau hauv thiab hais rau cov me nyuam, sawv daws pib screaming thiab dhia thiab nce thiab nqis. Vim nws yog ib tug phij cuam uas nws xav muab. Nws ua rau kuv quaj tham txog nws." 

"Qhov tshaj plaws uas neeg yuav tsum to taub yog tias koj "kos lub thawv" koj thiab koj tsev neeg txaus siab los ntawm txoj kev pib thaum xaus rau thaum xaus rau hnub ntawd. Thiab koj hnov hlub txhua kauj ruam ntawm txoj kev los ntawm nws. LifeSource Yog li qhib rau kev txawj ntse thiab kev sib txuas lus thiab koj them xim rau cov grieving, thiab neeg txoj kev xav. Koj hais mav yuav tsum commended. Koj yeej pab neeg raws tus txheej txheem grieving."

"David lub npe yog inscribed rau phab ntsa Memorial. Muaj ib yam dab tsi healing thaum ib tug hlub ib lub npe yog rau ntawm phab ntsa Memorial. Thaum koj saib lub npe ntawm koj hlub ib tug, thiab ces coj ob peb kauj ruam rov qab thiab saib tag nrho lwm cov npe ntawm txoj kev thiab ntau lub neej uas tau raug kov vim yog cov khoom plig no nyob – nws yog haib thiab kho zoo. Peb twb xyuas phab ntsa ntau zaus. Nws yog ib qho chaw uas comfort thiab muab peb muab peb zaj dabneeg nrog lwm tus." Kelsey qhia tias nws nyuam qhuav coj ib pawg ntawm nws cov phooj ywg rau lub vaj Healing rau ib hnub uas yog ib qho nyuaj rau nws. Nws twb tau reminisce txog nws dad thiab muab dab tsi donation yog hais txog thiab seb nws muaj meant rau nws tsev neeg. 

"Rau leej twg yuav mus txog qhov no," Lynne qhia, "yog tsis tsuas lub vam cia tias LifeSource muaj, tab sis LifeSource cov neeg ua hauj lwm yog ib qhov chaw muab kev pab. Thaum koj xub tau mus rau hauv organ donation, koj xav tias koj yog ib leeg kheej, vim nws yog ib tug scary leap ntawm txoj kev ntseeg. Tus amazing tshaj plaws txog LifeSourceNtawm ob tog ntawm no (raws li ib tug neeg tau txais kev pab kom tau ib daim ntaub so ntswg) thaum peb muab cov leap, tsis muaj ib kauj ruam uas tsis txaus siab los ntawm LifeSource. Peb twb ntes tau txhua zaus peb xav tias peb yuav poob, los yog peb xav tias peb tau uneducated. Koj yog lub teeb qab lub vam cia. Koj yog amazing."

"Txawm kuv dad twb ncaim, peb tau txais ntawv los ntawm cov neeg uas tau txais los ntawm nws. Nws yog txaus paub tias nws twb tau pab rau lwm tus neeg. Peb tau hnov tias hlub thiab mob siab rau,"Kelsey ntxiv.

Blake pom zoo thiab ntxiv, "Kuv dad yog ib tug txiv neej zoo li tsis muaj lwm yam. Nws muab kuv lub neej, nurtured kuv, qhia kuv, nyob kuv thiab fought rau kuv.  Nws fought nws tus kab mob uas muab tseg nws muaj peev xwm ua pa thiab tsis tau nws muaj vam muab cov khoom plig rau lwm tus. Nws yog ib tug piv txwv shining ntawm lub zog, txoj kev ntseeg thiab siab tawv yog."