Hla lub ntsiab ntsiab lus

Brett zaj dabneeg: raws li tsev neeg Urban

Muaj cov neeg uas yuav teeb tau ib chav tsev. Lawv kev kaj siab lug, kev zoo siab. Lawv luag nyav, kis tau. Brett Urban yog ib cov neeg.

Thaum nws tsuas muaj ob xyoos, ib lub tsheb tragic sib tsoo tua Brett tus niam thiab tshuav Brett thiab nws tij laug, Marcus, loj raug mob. Brett twb tsis tau hais lus los yog siv ib sab ntawm nws lub cev thiab Marcus ua paraplegic. Brett tus txiv, Todd, yog tshuav rau niam txiv peb cov tub hluas rau nws tus kheej.

Brett Urban hauv lub tsev kho mob.

Dua li ntawm qee, Brett txuas ntxiv mus ua ib lub teeb rau nws tsev neeg ua lawv luag nrog nws ua dag, upbeat xwm. Nws hlub menyuam SpongeBob Square ris, ua si Duck Goose thiab noj McDonald tus fabkis txoj fries.

Thaum Brett yog tsib, nws tsev neeg hlob thaum Todd ntsib thiab sib yuav Louise (Weezie), ib tug kws tu neeg mob pediatric thiab niam ntawm peb cov ntxhais. Nws thiab Todd blended nws cov tub hluas peb nrog nws cov ntxhais peb; Lawv los ua ib hnub niaj hnub Brady Bunch – nrog rau tag nrho cov me nyuam tsis pub dhau yim xyoo sib.

"Muaj cov kwvtij fights thiab teeb meem," Weezie hais. "Tab sis lawv muaj ib yam hauv common – lawv adoration rau Brett."

Ces rau hnub xya hnub xya, 2019, thaum 21 xyoo Brett yog nrog nws yawg mus xyuas cov kwv tij neej tsa, qee ntaus dua. Brett poob rau tej kauj ruam, ntaus nws lub taub hau, thiab yeej tsis regained consciousness.

Nrog kev pab los ntawm cov tub rog, Brett tus ntxaib ntxaib – uas yog chaw nres tsheb nrog cov tub rog nyob Poland thiab nws tus muam – ib tsav rau cov tubrog nyuj hoom, chaw nres tsheb hauv Texas – tuaj tsev hais goodbye rau Brett.

Brett yog noj tawm ventilated kev them nyiaj yug rau ntuj 4, surrounded los ntawm nws stepmother thiab loj vivncaus, hu nkauj "tsib liab liab" – nws nyiam.  Nws yog zaj kwv txhiaj lawv yuav siv los hu nkauj thaum twg nws tau kuaj los yog ib MRI. Brett nyiam cov repetition thiab yuav luag thiab ua tej yam. Zaj kwv txhiaj ib txwm cia nws tseem thiab twj ywm thiab muab kev sib haum xeeb thiab comfort rau sawv daws nyob brett tus moments kawg moments.

Vim Brett yog nyob rau hauv lub tsev kho mob ze li ntawm ib lub hlis, nws tsev neeg muaj sij hawm los xav txog ntau yam, xws li yog Brett yuav muaj ib lub txiv kab ntxwv hloov. Lawv nrog lawv cov me nyuam thiab lawv tag nrho txaus siab rau nws. Thaum kawg, yog ib tug donor aligned nrog lawv qhov tseem ceeb li ib tsev neeg thiab Brett tus ua ib tug neeg.

"Peb paub tej yam zoo nws yuav tau, hais Weezie. Peb tsa ceg cov me nyuam paub tias nws yog lawv txoj hauj lwm pab lwm tus."

Tam sim no ntau tshaj ib xyoo tom qab poob Brett, Todd thiab Weezie Urban, hais Brett donation muaj tiag lawm ib txwj rau lawv li tsev neeg.

"Poob ib tug me nyuam phev heev. Muaj tug tsis muaj txoj kev ua rau kev txiav txim zoo ntawm nws tab sis txiav txim siab los pub Brett lub txiv kab ntxwv muaj tiag hloov peb,"hais Weezie. "Peb yeej tau honestly hais tias lub neej mus [rau lwm tus neeg] vim Brett tus tuag thiab nws yuav siv sij hawm npaum li cas tawm peb lub siab lub ntsws."

Brett rua ob tug neeg uas nws sab laug thiab txoj cai raum thiab healed dozens ntawm lwm tus los ntawm cov nqaij mos uas restorative.

Nws tsev neeg tseem honor Brett nco nyob rau hauv ntau txoj kev loj thiab me me. Lawv twb txais kev pab noj mov ntawm lub ronald McDonald tsev thiab kawm LifeSource tsev neeg txheej xwm. Thaum Brett tus muam, Sawyer, tau sib yuav rau lub yim hli ntuj 24, 2019, tsev neeg lom Brett, thiab lub neej nws rua thiab healed, los hnav Donate lub neej "Donor tsev neeg" pins. Sawyer txawm muaj "Donate lub neej" sewn hauv nws kab tshoob tiab, hla nws lub plawv.

Todd thiab Weezie nyuam qhuav hnov los ntawm ib tus Brett lub raum cov neeg tau txais kev pab uas yog tau muaj zog txhua hnub thiab thiaj xav thov ua tsaug rau lub neej-txuag khoom plig.

Brett lub teeb tseem ci ntsa iab los ntawm ob tug neeg nws rua thiab healed. Uas yog ib yam zoo nkauj txog donation: koj yuav kis tau koj lub teeb rau lwm tus nqa.

"Cia koj lub teeb ci ntsa iab kaj lug, tias lwm tus yuav pom lawv txoj kev tawm ntawm qhov tsaus nti."
– Katrina Mayer